xen/arm, libxl: Revert XEN_DOMCTL_shadow_op; use p2m mempool hypercalls

xen/arm, libxl: Revert XEN_DOMCTL_shadow_op; use p2m mempool hypercalls

This reverts most of commit cf2a68d2ffbc3ce95e01449d46180bddb10d24a0, and bits
of cbea5a1149ca7fd4b7cdbfa3ec2e4f109b601ff7.

First of all, with ARM borrowing x86's implementation, the logic to set the
pool size should have been common, not duplicated.  Introduce
libxl__domain_set_paging_mempool_size() as a shared implementation, and use it
from the ARM and x86 paths.  It is left as an exercise to the reader to judge
how libxl/xl can reasonably function without the ability to query the pool
size...

Remove ARM's p2m_domctl() infrastructure now the functioanlity has been
replaced with a working and unit tested interface.

This is part of XSA-409 / CVE-2022-33747.

Signed-off-by: Andrew Cooper <andrew.cooper3@citrix.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefano Stabellini <sstabellini@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Anthony PERARD <anthony.perard@citrix.com>
Release-acked-by: Henry Wang <Henry.Wang@arm.com>